Supporting the Transition into Early Childcare Settings

Starting nursery or another childcare setting is a significant step for both children and parents. It often brings a mix of excitement and nervousness, especially if it is your first experience of being apart. 

With the right support, most children settle well and build confidence over time. 

Top tips for a smooth transition 

1. Build familiarity 

• Attend settling-in sessions where possible 

• Spend time exploring the setting together 

• Share routines and preferences with staff 

2. Start the day with connection 

• Spend a few calm minutes together before leaving 

• A cuddle, chat or short story can help your child feel secure 

3. Use a comfort item 

• Send a favourite toy, blanket or photo 

• This helps your child feel connected to home 

4. Keep goodbyes short and consistent 

• Use a simple routine (hug, wave, phrase) 

• Avoid long goodbyes, which can increase anxiety 

5. Stay calm and reassuring 

• Children take emotional cues from adults 

• Staff are experienced in helping children settle and will offer comfort 

 A final reassurance for parents 

It is completely normal for children to feel unsettled in the early days. Some may cry at drop-off, particularly at first, but most settle quickly once they become familiar with routines and relationships. 

Every child settles at their own pace. Working in partnership with nursery staff and maintaining consistent routines at home can help make this transition smoother.